Sometmes I really hate my own species...women...or girls... Why do the majority of females enjoy bashing other females? Either verbally, emotionally, or even physically? Is it jealousy? Insecurities? I think it's both most times. Females love to bring other females down, just to make themselves feel superior...it's rediculous. I think all girls absolutely MUST have something to bitch about at all times, or else they feel incomplete. It's seen in every woman I know, especially the younger ones. "Oww, my back hurts", "She's such a bitch", "I hate my life". What do I say to those girls? KEEP IT TO YOURSELF! Because we all have our own problems, and not everyone wants to hear from whiney little girls who can't deal.
The next thing I hate about females is the constant need to gossip. It doesn't usually matter who or what it's about, but most girls love to do this. I, myself, try not to gossip...for I find it demeaning and kindof cruel...but from time to time I fall into this trap, but then quickly take notice and beat myself up about it.A lot of girls will backstab their best friend in return for feeling better about themeslves, gaining popularity, or sometimes just for something to do. Sometimes these backstabbing tales are not even true. Rumors are a popular form of hurt among teenage girls today. People make up stories that they think will amuse others [and embarass the person it's about] and spread them around...laughing all the while.These girls are insecure scum, and need a good reality check. THEY ARE NOT AS FUNNY AS THEY BELIEVE. Gossiping only makes the gossipers feel better by lowering someone else and laughing at them....it takes their minds off their own stupid lives.
Comparing one's self to another. This is also something every girl does. It can lead to serious problems like bulemia or anorexia... in extreme cases. Comparing yourself to someone who is prettier, thinner, cooler, richer, more popular, more talented, has more boyfriends, etc than you is just a bad idea, because nothing good can come out of it. It just lowers your self-esteem, and makes you feel that you should be more like them in order to be successful. It's not true...you are special and unique...do you really want to be like those shallow blonde ditzy twits? I mean really? I know I don't. All they have going for them is their tits...and will end up in a stripclub with two kids, and three std's 10 years down the road. Even though you may stop and think "wow, she's so pretty and popular...I want to be like her", you really don't want to be. Their lives are meaningless, trust me.
Girls who treat guys like dirt, or cheat on them [ just because they can] make me sick to my stomach. They should not take advantage of men this way. When girls cheat on their boyfriends either to seem 'cool' or just because they're horny sluts...I think they should be shot on sight. I know a lot of guys this has happened to, and they were crushed by it. My boyfriend's ex cheated on him numerous times, and she even asked for forgiveness and for him to take her back!.She also insulted me to my face on my second date with him...she just showed up to his appartment and insulted me! Practically called me fat and ugly! I was stunned that this girl that I just met had said these things. Oh well, she lost the best thing that will ever happen to her. He's mine now. And I'll never mistreat or cheat on anyone, let alone jon. I love him too much and am too decent a person to do that to a guy like him. I've been with him 10 months now.
Another thing that really puzzles me are those girls who are dark, depressed and obsessed with death. Why are they this way, I wonder. Sure, everyone has/will be depressed at some point in their lives, but why become so morbid? I understand the mentality of some who cut themselves. It is usually due to neglect in some area of their lives, and they are calling out for help or attention in attempt to fill the void. I understand your pain...but don't scar yourselves, girls. Just believe in yourself...and everything will become better sooner or later...just hang on. You are special, and we don't want to lose you. But the other group of cutters who state "cutting is cool" and think that if they cut themselves, they will be part of a new fashion statement. That's retarded. Get over yourselves.
Thanks for listening to my ramblings. They're more like observations really....I dunno.I'm not a bitch, i just hate most females for the above reasons.Feel free to drop a comment and let me know how you feel about these subjects.